I'm a single/divorced man from a 13 year marriage. We never had any children. Talked about it, but she would divert the topic and not bring it up again.
I'm now talking with a woman, and we hit it off really well.. we've been talking on the phone for about a week. She has 3 kids. I have not met her yet, for she lives about 500 miles away from me. Which I actually think is a blessing, because it keeps the physical side out of the equation and helps us get to know more about each other. She agrees also.
I love cartoons, Toy Story, Scooby Doo and love Disney World, to go to the toy section and look at the different toys. I really consider myself a big kid. (I'm 38)
But friends and co-workers tend to steer me away from being with someone with kids. They just don't see me with kids, and being that dad role.
It's a little confusing. I love to do adult things, but have the kid inside me there also. I'm responsible, own my own home. Work FT with $ to save. Help 
and thank you...